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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You fell out of love and quit having sex with him.  I’m not condoning his cheating but certainly it stands to reason that played some role in his actions.[/quote]

This.

If you don't love him and aren't interested in sleeping with him, then how upset could you possibly be? He's given you a reason to leave...so why not leave?

But if you truly are upset, it's because you do love him. So why not try therapy and see if you can build a happy marriage? 
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she didn't say she cut him off.  she said their sex life "was diminishing."  and this was while they had a newborn and infant.  that's a completely normal pattern, and any man who would decide he was entitled to have an affair because he didn't prefer the frequency while his wife is caring for an infant is a complete and total cretin. Grow up!  [/quote]

Toddler, not infant. What exactly does "diminishing" mean, though? Once a month? Once a quarter? Once a year? I mean, let's get real here. Normally the lower drive spouse will say they have it enough, they probably have it 1-2x/week, while the higher drive spouse feels as though they are not having it enough, and feel they are having it 1-2x/month. Right? Time goes fast and not having sex flies by til suddenly it's been years and your newborn is actually 3 years old now.[/quote]

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