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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I found out my husband has been cheating on me a few days ago. I'm still processing what happened as I am in shock that he did this to me. We have a toddler together and I'm trying to convince myself to stay together for her sake. He is showing remorse, accepts all responsibilities, and wants to work things out with me. We had a tough time in our marriage after having our baby. [b]I fell out of love with him[/b] and our sex life was diminishing. He said he felt lonely. He feels shameful and embarrassed for what he did to me. If kids weren't involved, I don't think i could or would want to save our marriage. I feel sick to my stomach whenever i think about what he did. How can i ever trust him again? Our whole relationship was built on trust and now I've discovered he lied to me all these times. I want to forgive him because maybe now that everything is out on the table, we can rebuild our relationship. He promised to devote his all to being the best husband and father now and asked for one last chance to work things out...sigh. I feel so torn. I never thought that this would happen to me.[/quote]

You might want to reflect on this.  Doesn't sound like everything can be pinned on him.[/quote]

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