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Reply to "If you have been cheated on, how do you forgive your spouse?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I’m sorry you’re being attached here. What a terrible time this must be for you. I can only speak from my experience. I gave my marriage a year after discovering cheating to see how my XH handled the aftermath. He was remorseful etc for maybe a month. Then a lot of underlying relationship issues came back, counseling was a disaster, and nothing had changed for the better. I made an honest effort, and I imagine some marriages could recover, but mine didn’t. Take very good care of yourself at this time. Grieve. There may be a way forward together, but there’s no going back to what you had. I suggest hot baths, exercise, crying, journaling, therapy, wine, and girlfriends to talk to, not necessarily in that order. Big hugs. [/quote] Great advice![/quote]
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