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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This has given me a lot to think about... I think trust but verify (who said that—thanks) is appealing, but this nagging feeling...

As for a threesome, no. I don’t think I could watch  her with another person even a girl . I would be pissed.

So if the women on here, you think you’d text all the time with a new lesbian friend? And I mean as soon as we get the kids to bed and until after I’ve fallen asleep and in the morning pretty much when I leave. It just feels like a lot. I guess I should ask to see her phone. But I don’t want to be an asshole. [/quote]

She may be having an emotional affair with this woman but not really be aware that that's what is happening. If you get negative and accusatory, I think it's easy for her to fall back on "you're controlling!" and "I guess I'm not allowed to have friends now." I think it will be more effective to focus on the positive: "I'd really like to have some screen free time with you every day so we can connect." Can you two go away for a long weekend? It's tough. I'm a woman and my (now) ex wife left me for a woman coworker. In retrospect, the only thing that would have changed that outcome is putting more effort into my marriage earlier on.[/quote]

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