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[quote=Anonymous]OP, my mom was controlling and anxious and it was hard to set boundaries with her but I did (primarily told her I didn't want her to criticize my father to me). She got mad but she respected it. I also learned to stop telling her things because she would use them against me later. It was hard because you're used to sharing stuff with your mom and you shouldn't have to not do that. But I did it and once I got some space from her, my perspective on her changed. Her anxiety didn't affect me anymore and I could treat her like the anxious neighbor lady down the street because her acting anxious doesn't threaten my well-being. I was able to have some compassion once I had boundaries but the boundaries had to come first. You deserve a better mom! Unfortunately you won't get one. Grieve for her and let her go and take care of yourself. Wishing you the best![/quote]
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