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[quote=Anonymous]OP the general idea that people should wait to introduce new girlfriends/boyfriends to kids is a good one. And if your exh was on here everyone would be telling him to cool his jets.

But you are asking a different question. You are not asking "is it right to introduce a gf to our dd without telling me so early?" You are asking "is exH introducing his gf to DD so potentially harmful that I am justified limiting his time with her as a result?" To me the answer to that is no. Even though if exH was here asking me if it was potentially harmful I would be saying yes.

You need to understand your position here. You guys will be coparenting and you can't control the environment at his home if it isn't abusive or neglectful. If a bunch of daddy's girlfriends break dds heart over the next 10 years she will learn a lesson about her dad and life that you really can't shield her from. Hopefully that wont happen. But this is her dad and his flaws and foibles will be things she learns intimately no matter what you do.

I would chill out on this and save my political capital for bigger battles.
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