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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My spouse has been in a long-term affair. When it first started, I had found out about it, but after counseling and working together thought it was over years ago. Recently, the person he has been seeing sent me an email with a picture of the two of them. That is when I found out that it had started up again.

I am curious if you have found out your spouse was cheating, if you spoke with the person they were cheating with. I'm considering calling her and saying, "It seems you have something to tell me, so wanted to give you the opportunity."

What would you do?

Thanks
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It depends on your end goal.  If you call her do it already knowing that she is willing to cheat with a married man AND willing to give him up to his wife.  She's not a loyal woman and not one with integrity so take everything she says with a grain of salt... and expect some salt in your wounds.  If you plan to divorce him she may give you some ammunition.  Only you can decide if calling her will help you more than it will hurt you.  I'm sorry you are having to deal with this.  It sounds horrible.[/quote]

I agree with this.

I am so sorry.[/quote]

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