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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A housekeeper would be cheaper.[/quote]

+1. If this is your only issue with him, get a housekeeper. [/quote]

Stop. Please stop.

I am sorry, but a housekeeper isn't going to fix this - it's naive to think so. This isn't not cleaning the bathroom for a few weeks, this is a daily garbage dump of a mess. I know because I could be the husband. If I didn't have some standard for myself this is exactly what my house would be like.  The OP's husband has no such standard. You need someone in the house every morning to spend an hour picking up after the husband as if he were a toddler.  This isn't a weekly cleaning service type issue.

OP, I'd do two things: 1) take the time to sort the stuff you want or need and then throw the rest in his space as previously suggested. It will save you some time/heartache b/c you were going to get stuck with it anyway; and 2) probably counseling for you to decide if you want to issue and ultimatum that he get treatment or move out.  Perhaps that will make him take this seriously.

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