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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Remember in your thinking just because hes rich doesn't mean that you will get a windfall and be able to hire nanny's and outsource care as op said. Hes there to support the baby not make your life easier with his millions. [/quote]

If he doesn't want to help make her life easier as the mother of his child, then why should she continue with a pregnancy only he wants?

This is a serious question. You're saying she shouldn't feel entitled to his money as a means to make her life easier. Well, why should he feel entitled to her body for pregnancy and efforts raising a child 'he desperately wants'? Why should he feel entitled taking away resources from her existing children to support his child?

OP, you really need to lay your cards on the table. Be up front about finances. Pregnancy and motherhood will have a huge impact on your career and your ability to provide for the two children you already have. What is he willing to offer in terms of help, financial, emotional, time, etc. You have very little time to make this decision. Don't go into it with vague assurances. Personally, if I already had 2 children, I would not continue this pregnancy with the terms that he's only there to support the baby and your needs aren't his concern.

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It doesn't matter if he feels entitled to her body if a woman chooses to have a baby that she doesn't want and only does it to please the guy who's issue is that hers. Woman have choices but it doesn't entitle them to be taken care. its the child who should be provided for. Hes a millionaire not her, if she has his child the child will me entitled and an heir to his fortune.

As woman we hold the ball to what happens in scenarios like this. Yes a man should get a say but in reality he doesn't our bodies our choice. Now he should pay child support  but enough to support the baby not her whole family. Support should be 50/50 not 100% all on him since hes the millionaire [/quote]

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