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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a stupid way to scratch an itch. Find a better way. [/quote]

OP here. A better way...how? Clearly I am not happy with what I am getting at home and conversations about our sex life has gotten us nowhere. On top of that, my husband travels and who knows what he is doing on these trips where he's staying out after midnight "entertaining clients". So maybe before anyone judges, its not always one sided. I am just trying to find a discreet way to fill a void in my marriage without blowing up my family. Unlike a lot of women on dcum, i need regular sex in my life and that is just not happening.[/quote]

[b]You’re looking for excuses to cheat and you want us to validate your decision[/b]. People who want to cheat, cheat. It doesn’t sound like you’re happy in your marriage or that you trust your husband (although that just sounds like you’re trying to justify your own desire to cheat). Look, OP you obviously want to cheat, but as others have said, be aware of the consequences. If caught, you will screw up your children’s lives, damage your marriage, jeopardize your job, and lose the respect of your friends and colleagues. If you’re willing to risk your life this way, then why not divorce?[/quote]

I don't agree.  She didn't ask what anyone thinks about her decision.  One she has already made.  And she didn't ask for judgement although that is mostly what she has received.  She asked for specific advice about how to approach the target of her desires.  I'm sure she realizes the risks involved.  She needs sex and she is not getting it in her marriage.  What advice would you give her husband or any husband who has driven his wife to look elsewhere?[/quote]

If this is just about her wanting sex, why is she targeting her married co-worker? Can’t she find a FWB? It sounds like she’s looking for something else.[/quote]

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