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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can't help people who don't want to be helped. But any financial help you offer needs to come with heavy strings. Personally, I'd make one offer. I'll pay for them to break their lease and move to a more affordable home. BUT this means I get a say in where they move and get to look over their finances to help them make a budget for their new reality. I'd want to manage their life in the short term essentially. If they can't manage it, I will, but I'm not just giving hand outs. If they don't like that deal, fine. But that's my only offer.[/quote] This - and if they are near SIL's mom, can she agree to watch the child on a temporary basis and pull child out of day care.[/quote]
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