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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People are stupid. One way to address this is to thank people and immediately say: I know, I won the lottery with my girls, they're both so kind/smart/beautiful. The other is to teach your kid to value herself regardless of how the world views her. This is the most important thing to teach a woman. Beautiful or not. [/quote] +1 great advice[/quote] OP you need to say something like this or something else to brush off the comments about their looks. You being silent or nodding & saying thanks might work socially but it reenforces the negative comments to your other child. Also, it might be painful to talk but try to talk to your other daughter and let her open up (if you aren't doing this already). You know she is hurting, she knows that you know, you need to talk to her. [/quote]
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