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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The thing that struck me most from your post OP was that you didn't count her plans with her neighbors/friends as being "busy." I have a perfectly good relationship with my siblings (not super-close, but definitely friendly), but if they invited my family to do something when I already had plans with neighbors/friends, I'd tell them I was busy without thinking twice about it. I think you are looking for problems if evidence that your sister (gasp) had fun without you is the last straw/evidence that she lied to you/you will never be friends. Why wouldn't it just be evidence that she was, in fact, busy? It's not like she posted photos of her cleaning out her sock drawer or messages about how bored she was? I genuinely don't get it.[/quote]

Because they are always with their friends and neighbors. If she liked us a little bit, we easily could join in the fun.[b] She didn't have plans with them.[/b] They are always just there. It wasn't anything formal.

She told me she was busy at work all day. Then, she posts all the photos of the kids in the yard playing. We could have been there, but she didn't include us. And I'm sorry if that is needy, but it hurts.

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How could you possibly know that?  [/quote]

Because they are always there. She sends photos every day with the neighbor kids. They are all always back and forth between houses. She talks about it all the time, how the kids come and go from all the houses. [/quote]

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