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[quote=Anonymous]I'm also in the polite but direct camp. I understand why this bothers you OP. It would stick w/ me too and it wouldn't go away until I said something. I'd tell your mother that the frequent references to having paid for your wedding bother you. That you so appreciated thheir support, but that it was a big deal to you and your husband that you were able to put on that level of event, at such a young age, and that their contribution, while it was a LOT of money, was only 1/3rd of the costs. So it feels dismissive of something you're proud of. And I'd also say that while I'm not proud of it, and I love throwing showers for others, it has always hurt my feelings that no one threw a shower for me when I got married. I'd own that. Just getting it out in the open can rob it of much of it's power. I'm sorry OP.[/quote]
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