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[quote=Anonymous]OP I get it. I disagree with all this overly polite stuff. Anytime they say they paid for it, I would calmly correct, especially in front of others, and say-you paid this and I paid that. I would not throw any showers I don't want to throw. I am in my mid 40s and have learned to stop being a people pleaser and to be a polite straight shooter. If it bothers you this much, then correct anyone who BSes. They key is you must do this calmly. Also, anytime you give into someone else's guilt trip, you reinforce it and show them guilt works. Say "no" to the shower and if you get a guilt trip do not change your answer. Emotional vampires will do things like push and push and manipulate.Don't give them blood. Allow them to get tired of trying to push buttons so they find another victim. People with empathy and decency don't do this stuff.[/quote]
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