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[quote=Anonymous]It bothers me, but I think the details matter, too. I've seen plantation weddings that really leaned into the Romantic Old South stuff, which I think it tone-deaf and gross. Or all-white events with AA catering staff. Yuck. I get it, some of those homes and grounds are lovely, but I just find it hard to find them "romantic." Too often it seems to be nostalgia for a highly sanitized version of the past, which was a sort of faux nobility based on the enslavement and torture of black people. [/quote]
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