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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some people deserve to be cheated on. Waaaah, but it’s true.[/quote] Such as a wife who at age 55 has decided she is done with sex? [/quote] Yes, that is a perfect example. Why even ask such an obvious question?[/quote] Why does that person "deserve" to be cheated on? Why not just end the marriage first?[/quote] Ending a marriage can take years. You don’t just click your fingers and boom, the marriage is over. Many stats have a one year waiting period before you can even file. That’s if everyone decides they want to end the marriage. If one party fights over assets, it could take years to divorce. Divorce laws make it more difficult to just end the marriage. And exit affair can make it easier to leave. [/quote] So get the ball rolling, tell them you want out, and then go be with someone else. It doesn't take two willing people to get divorced; it takes one willing person. There's not the option of one spouse "disallowing" a divorce. It's cowardly and deceptive to sneak around having an affair while your spouse is oblivious snd selfish to stay married just to maintain your assets and pre-divorce standard of living. Live an authentic life; be true to yourself and others.[/quote]
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