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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Having been through this for 3 kids - do your kid a favor and say nothing. The 3d graders who announce to the teacher and the other kids that "they are in AAP/the smart class" are[b] universally mocked by the staff and other parents [/b]and can be insufferable. Your child is very young, has very limited social filters, and does not understand what being in AAP means. In my personal experience, BTW, the kids who trumpeted their AAP acceptance at age 9 were not the strongest students in the program by 8th grade... It will come up eventually from some child, so wait until then to explain to your child that they have the same opportunity as all the other kids to do their best at school. [/quote]
So you’re warning us that kids are surrounded by sh!tty adults would look down on/ universally mock an 8 year old? Jeez.
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My thoughts exactly. Kind of shitty. [b]The kids should be excited and proud to be in AAP[/b], not have to hide it.[/quote]

Basically the NNAT and CogAT scores are based on genetics not hard work as the tests are given to first and second graders.  Being proud of scoring well on those tests would be like being proud of being tall.  I think it's ridiculous for adults to be mean to an 8 year old, but I also think it's crappy of parents whose kids get into AAP to make the kids feel like they are special because they were lucky enough to have innate aptitude for these tests.  As kids get older and actually have to put work into grades, then we can start teaching them to be proud of their hard work. [/quote]

For some it does require hard work!

Really, proud?  they can be excited for the opportunity, but proud?  These are the kids spouting off about being so smart.  They are 2nd graders.  [/quote]

This.  When my oldest got in, a friend called to "congratulate" me.  Beyond bizarre.  [/quote]

How is it different from congratulating someone who got into TJ?[/quote]

Because you're generally congratulating a high-schooler on achieving something that is likely important to them and that they have worked hard for, not a 2nd-grader who scored well on an IQ test.  Getting accepted to TJ required both smarts and hard work; getting accepted to AAP generally does not.[/quote][/quote]

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