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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I gave my daughter every advantage in life (private school, dance, piano, art, horseback riding lessons) and it appears to be backfiring. She was in school on a full scholarship and dropped out because she did not like the culture. [/quote]
I agree with the others that you need to lay down the lay and make sure that she is either full-time in school, or full-time employed.  You have been too easy on her, not too hard.

OP, did you drill this concept into her when she was younger?  I am not trying to imply that you did anything wrong in raising her, just asking if she knew what the social contract between parent and child was going to be after she turned 18.  My kids are young teens/tweens and I am trying to set the stage for them to understand that their life will involve work, likely work that they don't like all that much most of the time, and lots of it.  I grew up with immigrant working class parents.  I am UMC, but want to make sure that my kids keep some of the working class values - delaying gratification, not spending money frivolously,  studying and working hard.  Has she given you a plan for how she sees the next few years unfolding?  It doesn't have to be college, but it does need to be a path to self-sufficiency and a career of some sorts.[/quote]

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