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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you asking if you should go to the park? Did you want him to come with you? Just make a decision and leave.[/quote]

This is what I was thinking. Why can't you just make a decision?  You're an adult with a marriage and child but you can't decide if there's time to go to the park or not? COME ON!  You sound indecisive and naggy. I wouldn't want to answer you either.  JUST DECIDE.[/quote]

Op here. We have a baby (10 weeks old) and a toddler. My decisions affect him. If I left with toddler he’d have to watch the baby and figure out dinner. If he came with us then we would have grabbed dinner out together.

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Are you a SAHM?  I'm guessing your DH is burnt out, and is not interested in making mundane decisions like whether to go to the park or not.  Tell him you are going to the park, and then tell him what you need him to do (watch the baby, make dinner, twiddle his thumbs).

It never got this bad for us, but I eventually had to just tell my DH that there were certain things that we just didn't have TIME to discuss, and that we'd just need to trust the person who had the most invested to handle it.  As an example, he wanted to discuss TVs ad nauseum - no thanks.  I don't even have to have a TV, so no, I'm not interested in discussing makes and models.

In your case, I suspect you talk your husband to death and want his input on bullshit that is unnecessary, and he is just tuning you out.  Make a decision on unimportant stuff and inform him of it.  In case you still don't get it, going to the park (or not) and deciding who is cooking what for dinner is not important. [/quote]

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