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[quote=Anonymous]OP, two things I noticed here that no one mentioned. 1. it's fantastic you offer kids a safe space, but I would definitely encourage DCs to never speak derogatorily about their dad. You'd want him to do the same if they ever went to him about you. I'm divorced and DS speaks badly of his dad to me all the time and I tell him it's one thing to complain about his behavior, it's another to tell me he's annoying or an asshole. Not OK. 2. DH might be overcompensating because he feels like if he did things a certain way, his life would have been different. Your kids need to understand that dad is human, and your DH needs to understand that this is not his battle. He's to show the kids an example of hard work, he's to help them when needed, but leave the preaching to the preachers. [/quote]
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