Reply to Is this rude?

Forum Index » Family Relationships

Reply to "Is this rude? "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not RSPVing means they aren't coming.  I would be more annoyed if they said RSVPed no and came and you didn't have enough food.

Are they local?[/quote]

Yes they’re both local. The one who didn’t RSVP did send a gift but didn’t say anything to me about the shower, at all. The other said she couldn’t come but didn’t send anything for the baby.

I guess it’s just sad to me because these women are all DD will have for aunts in her life once she’s born and neither one has shown interest at all. I just feel it’s rude to not even acknowledge the shower. [/quote]
Honey, get over it. She will be fine. I have five aunts and they’ve all been nonexistent in my life. I’m fine. My DD doesn’t even have any aunts. She I’ll be fine.

YOU are upset. YOU need to accept this. You want forced and fabricated love from disinterested women for your daughter? You need to ask yourself why. [/quote]

honey, she said why. [b]She wants loving aunts for her DD. These aren't "disinterested women" they are family so she is right to be upset about what does look to be like selfish people who will not go out of their way for you. [/b]

She need not "get over it" but it is information that I would file away for how I interact with them going forward. [/quote]

There is no DD yet, other than a fetus.

People should have to go out of their way for a fetus that isn’t theirs, and isn’t in danger?

I would go to the ends of the earth for my niece, and have in many ways, including babysitting her for free every weekend, overnights, for more than a year, but I didn’t go to the shower for her. I bought her her  (well, two) car seat, bassinet, and a whole bunch of things as my very young brother and his partner could not really afford them. I have been there endlesslyover the years, but I couldn’t attend a single party before she was born. I guess I’m horrible for missing two hours of cake and baby naming games.  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics