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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here for the first few years of my marriage I never checked on husband and the thought never occurred to me to ever look in phone or email; fast forward a few years and I get a call from a man complaining my husband is having affair with his wife; holy shit, I was floored and surprised; my DH and I have worked through it but [b]he will NEVER be entitled to total privacy again[/b] and once the trust is lost it is lost.

My point is the operative part of their question is that DH is not cheating and you are checking anyway; but for anyone who has been betrayed in past by DH even if they are not cheating now I think it would be hard not to check occasionally ; [/quote]

LOL!!!  That is hilarious.  Y'all ain't worked thru jack squat if your respective roles have shifted from husband & wife to ex-con & parole-officer.  Sounds like you two have got a wonderful relationship  :roll: 
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We definitely don’t have a wonderful relationship at all but are tying to make t work as we have kids - thanks for your judjemental value though LOL - we may even consider an open marriage but my point is that once trust is lost you can’t regain it back so easily - my point also is that I would NEVER have thought I would be someone checking emails/phones but be careful thinking you wouldn’t do it - that is pure hubris [/quote]

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