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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this all happening at work?

If he's pursuing friendships with other women outside of work that's 100% inappropriate. If that's the case I would put a stop to that. Most couples make friends with other couples. Not seeking out the opposite sex, especially single ones. If he's doing that he falls under the "creepy married" guy.[/quote]

No, they did not meet at work.

What a mixed bag of answers here. I honestly don’t know what to think. She’s really outwardly at least kind and interesting, she’s never married but has lived in several different countries. I *think* she’s from Bulgaria or it might be a neighboring country that she grew up in, lived elsewhere in Europe but definitely Eastern European. I know her by name. She is a neighbor and met my husband at a bar, and we have a lot of mutual friends (ranging from her age to our age). All I can say is DH and her have taken some kind of unusual liking to each other, especially her. A few things bothered me when talking to her, like her asking probing questions like “how did you meet?” and apparently knowing details about him that I didn’t realize he was sharing. And he’s helped her with her car and furniture a while back and has given her a ride home when her car was in service, etc. DH has generally been that kind of guy with friends, male, female, married friends ...but something still seems inappropriate. 
Am I just intimidated because she’s 30, slender, and has a “sexy” foreign accent?

Also, our mutual friends have never said they suspected anything, not that I’ve asked. They like her. 
OP[/quote]

What you describe sound like my ex dh’s affair down to the rides and help. Check his cell phone records and get a gps for his car. Do not confront; he will deny and hide better. [/quote]

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