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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this all happening at work?

If he's pursuing friendships with other women outside of work that's 100% inappropriate. If that's the case I would put a stop to that. Most couples make friends with other couples. Not seeking out the opposite sex, especially single ones. If he's doing that he falls under the "creepy married" guy.[/quote]

No, they did not meet at work.

What a mixed bag of answers here. I honestly don’t know what to think. She’s really outwardly at least kind and interesting, she’s never married but has lived in several different countries. I *think* she’s from Bulgaria or it might be a neighboring country that she grew up in, lived elsewhere in Europe but definitely Eastern European. I know her by name. She is a neighbor and met my husband at a bar, and we have a lot of mutual friends (ranging from her age to our age). All I can say is DH and her have taken some kind of unusual liking to each other, especially her. A few things bothered me when talking to her, like her asking probing questions like “how did you meet?” and apparently knowing details about him that I didn’t realize he was sharing. And he’s helped her with her car and furniture a while back and has given her a ride home when her car was in service, etc. DH has generally been that kind of guy with friends, male, female, married friends ...but something still seems inappropriate. 
Am I just intimidated because she’s 30, slender, and has a “sexy” foreign accent?

Also, our mutual friends have never said they suspected anything, not that I’ve asked. They like her. 
OP[/quote]

Ok, OP.  There are situations where you have to trust your gut.  This is one of them.  You can't articulate it, but you feel there is something inappropriate here.  You are an adult woman with a lot of experience and in my opinion that is enough.  Trust your gut.

The next part to this inquiry: what do you do about it?  Do you feel comfortable talking to DH?  Do you feel comfortable asking him to stop seeing her?[/quote]

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