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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you my SIL? My MIL does this too! It is so rude and it makes me so angry.  She has done this in her has as well as mine.  She walked in on me breastfeeding when I was in m own bed, in my underwear, in my own house.  The icing on the cake was she just let herself into my house so I didn't even know she was there.  When I said something about it, she said, "Well I knocked first, so it's okay."  Uh, don't most people knock to get permission to enter?  A knock isn't a warning, it's a request for permission.[/quote]

I’m curious what your response was? Did you tell it was NOT ok? She needs to wait for someone to let her in? [/quote]

Yes, I told her it was not okay, and that she needs to get permission to enter after knocking.  She still insists that it's perfectly okay for her to barge in if she knocks right before barging, and maintains that she did nothing wrong. She is never wrong, you know.  :roll: [/quote]

Are these knocks with no response and then an enter?  I mean, often if you own the house or are family visiting.  You knock to see if someone is in the room and then enter because you think noone is in the room.  This sounds like a lot of veiled hatred looking for an excuse to justify it.  I mean really, is this a final straw or an honest mistake?  [/quote]

??? Wow you’re clearly making a lot of assumptions here. She knocks and screams, “I’m coming in!” while opening the door. There is no time to even respond. She doesn’t pause between knocking and entering. There is no “veiled hatred.” It is a violation of basic courtesy and basic personal boundaries. [/quote]

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