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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s with the lazy ass, noncommittal meetups for drinks or coffee? I can’t believe how many women are discouraging men from actually planning first dates.[/quote]

You must not have dated recently.  This is 2019.  First dates like you see on the movies and TV do not exist anymore.  This is the age where people are cycling through dozens of people each year on first dates.  Many people go on multiple per week.  It used to be that there was a high chance that a first date would lead to a second and possibly more after that.  Today, very few first dates lead to a second.  It's a depressing shit show where no one actually gets with anymore long-term.

Because of this, the traditional first date things like a dinner, movie, or other activity where people get all gussied up on a Friday or Saturday night is OVER.  It's not about men just not wanting to romance the girl.  Many of us would if we knew the girl was even receptive to that.  But in today's world, anything remotely like that is perceived as trying too hard, out of desperation, etc.

Thus, people meet for a drink or a coffee with the high expectation that they'll never see each other again.

Man, as I'm typing this I realize how depressing things have become just in the last 10 years.[/quote]

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