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[quote=Anonymous]We had an unplanned 4th pregnancy. We thought we were done at 3, 3rd was only 6 months old when I learned I was pregnant. I wasn't sure we could handle the finances and that I would be able to continue working FT. I went to my OB's office and confirmed I was pregnant. I did my research to find a place that would do abortions and scheduled the abortion. DH was supportive either way. I wasn't sure I could do it - I am very pro-life. I had a miscarriage 2 days before my scheduled abortion. I was relieved to not be pregnant and to not have had to have an abortion. Nine months later we got pregnant by choice. We now have 4 kids. Money was tight that first year, but we are ok now (almost 2 years out). I have found a balance. My youngest has special needs, but it has brought our family closer together. You will make the right decision. I will be praying for you and your family. [/quote]
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