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[quote=Anonymous] My husband would probably do the same thing, OP. It's not making excuses for violence against women, it's being unable to proceed to judgement without "evidence". I would continue to explain what evidence actually means. Indirect, direct, clues to behavior, the social risks an accuser faces when she comes out publicly, there are so many things to weigh. Research shows that accusers hardly ever make unfounded claims, and that all claims, even the unsubstantiated ones, need to be taken seriously. I would not let this go. This person needs to be shunned. It is better to err on the side of shunning an innocent person rather than ignoring an abused person's claim. The man will never be charged, he will never go to prison, he gets to live a somewhat normal life. So he's not suffering that much, is he? [/quote]
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