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[quote=Anonymous]I’m a wife. I’m often tired. The metal and physical load of my day is exhausting. I do want to have sex with my husband and felt resentful and unappreciated when he would show up once in a blue moon with date night or the occasional “helping” around the house. It seemed disengenuous to helping me, and about a means to (his) end. Which is a difficult spot for him to be in as well. Nothing gets better without some communication. In a non-blaming way you two need to have a conversation about what is and isn’t working for you. I agree with the suggestion of sex before going out, that way the pressure is off and you can both relax and eat and rest however you like. If sex happens, great, if not it happened earlier. It’s a total buzz kill to come home to make polite conversation with the babysitter, or grandparents, a kid invariably wakes up etc...and the mood is kinda lost. It takes constant input to the relationship bank to have something to draw from. [/quote]
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