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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's your DH's calling his daughter a liar that's pushing people over the edge, here. That's really appalling. I mean, she finds out that her dad is cheating, and on top of that blow he calls her a liar and accuses her of making it up?! That's an ice cold bucket of water - the realization that your parent would hurt you/sell you out to save themselves. Reminds me of stories of parents who open credit cards in their kids' names, etc. There's a really deep trust that's broken there. Regardless of all the other crap that may go on in their lives, I think most kids have a feeling that mom and dad are people I can trust not to hurt me. And your DH took that trust from her.  
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+1 THIS is the reason for all the vitriol and judgment, OP. Not that you are willing to reconcile with a cheating spouse, but that your DH called your DD a liar to save his own butt. That’s appalling and really hard to recover from. I wouldn’t be able to see my DH the same way ever again. [/quote]

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