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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would turn it around on him: Put him on the defensive. Have her practice saying this calmly. Her delivery is what will sell it.

“OMG. You are so obsessed with me. Listen, I’m sorry but I’m not interested. Move on.”

[insults]

“Im sorry you’re mad, but I don’t like you. Someday you’ll meet someone who likes you back... it’ll be okay!”

“You’re starting to act like a stalker. You should get help...”

With this strategy, the more he lashed out - the more it looks like he truly is obsessed with her and is mad that she rejected him. It also 100% gives her the moral high ground AND it’s a lot more humiliating to him than if she were to call him names. If the behavior continues, and she does need to get help from the school, they will take it much more seriously than if it’s just a case of kids calling each other names.

Bonus: She can laugh about it! [/quote]

NO, I WILL NOT MAKE OUT WITH YOU!!  :lol: [/quote]

Ha! It also changes the narrative. Instead of her saying he’s calling her fat it becomes “He’s so obsessed with me he can’t get over it!” 
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