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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My MIL once told me that likes to hang out at cemeteries sometimes.  She says it is peaceful, no one disturbs you, and you can sit there and cry for an hour and no one thinks that is weird and tries to cart you off to the loony bin.  I think she mostly just does this after she and her DH get in a fight and she wants to get the heck out of the house for a while.  [/quote]

I totally get this. I am the PP who walks and cleans up graves of people I don’t know. When I see someone stop to park or someone who is at a grave I avoid them and most everyone does this for me too. I work in law enforcement and had a very meaningful case and I know where my victim is buried. There is a bench next to his grave and I sit there for a long time sometimes. It sounds stupid because I didn’t know him in real life but I’ll sit there and speak of everything that’s bothering me. No one comes near. No one questions. It feels good to speak emotions out loud and not be judged. [/quote]

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