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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's a man baby who doesn't actually care about treating you equally or being an adequate parent.  That said, he may leave you if you push it too hard.

I would suggest you short-circuit this whole thing by hiring a Saturday morning babysitter.  And stop coming back to rescue him.[/quote]

As the kids are older I am more comfortable with not coming back.  He won’t agree to a sitter....thinks a parent should be with the kids.[/quote]

What exactly do you think he will do if you don't come back?

Has he always been an asshole or is this a new development?[/quote]

Honestly, it manifested itself after #2 was born.[/quote]

It sounds like he's just not up for the hassle of two little kids.  Because let's be real, it's a lot.  I'd like more personal time too.  He's allowing himself to treat you unfairly because he's having a hard time coping with his responsibilities.

The next time he goes away, hire a sitter and if he doesn't like it, too bad.

What will he do if you go away and don't come back, really?  What do you honestly think he would do?[/quote]

Blow up my phone...with texts, calls, use find my friends..take DCs to where I am...throw a fit and leave them. Or, call his parents or mine to tell them I have been gone for hours and doesn’t know when I am coming home.[/quote]

Ok honey, you are in an abusive relationship and he is controlling you.  You need a therapist of your own to help you safely get a divorce.  That's super duper f*cked up behavior.[/quote]

NP +1

Not good.

And since he involves your parents in your marital issues, I’d just preemptively call both of them to let them know the situation and that [b]he is babysitting[/b] for a few hours and that they shouldn’t react to his ridiculous hysterics and tantrums. And do not tell him where you are.[/quote]

Np:  he’s taking care of the kids - he’s not “babysitting” his own children. [/quote]

I actually meant that kind of sarcastically, but yes I agree with you.[/quote]

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