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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's a man baby who doesn't actually care about treating you equally or being an adequate parent.  That said, he may leave you if you push it too hard.

I would suggest you short-circuit this whole thing by hiring a Saturday morning babysitter.  And stop coming back to rescue him.[/quote]

As the kids are older I am more comfortable with not coming back.  He won’t agree to a sitter....thinks a parent should be with the kids.[/quote]

What exactly do you think he will do if you don't come back?

Has he always been an asshole or is this a new development?[/quote]

Honestly, it manifested itself after #2 was born.[/quote]

It sounds like he's just not up for the hassle of two little kids.  Because let's be real, it's a lot.  I'd like more personal time too.  He's allowing himself to treat you unfairly because he's having a hard time coping with his responsibilities.

The next time he goes away, hire a sitter and if he doesn't like it, too bad.

What will he do if you go away and don't come back, really?  What do you honestly think he would do?[/quote]

Blow up my phone...with texts, calls, use find my friends..take DCs to where I am...throw a fit and leave them. Or, call his parents or mine to tell them I have been gone for hours and doesn’t know when I am coming home.[/quote]

Ok honey, you are in an abusive relationship and he is controlling you.  You need a therapist of your own to help you safely get a divorce.  That's super duper f*cked up behavior.[/quote]

NP +1

Not good.

And since he involves your parents in your marital issues, I’d just preemptively call both of them to let them know the situation and that he is babysitting for a few hours and that they shouldn’t react to his ridiculous hysterics and tantrums. And do not tell him where you are.[/quote]

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