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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's been five years and seven years for the people I have very strong negative feelings for, and I still feel incredibly angry and vengeful when I think about them. I think the world will be a better place when they die. I still have elaborate daydreams where I confront them and they are publicly shamed and embarrassed.

I am a practicing Catholic, and I know what I feel is wrong. I try to pray for them, and I do sincerely feel for them that something was really twisted in them to behave so badly, but I cannot truly forgive them. I live daily with the consequences of their actions, and the fallout will forever impact my life and the lives of the people I love in a negative way. I am not sure I will ever stop feeling angry or wishing them ill. That being said, the anger no longer consumes me, like it did the first couple of years. It also has not stopped me from moving on in my life, which is full of many good things and blessings. [/quote]

I don't understand how those people's action impacting the life of the people you love. It is your behavior, your emotions that impact people you love. You are the one who makes a choice every single day how you are going to interact with the people who love you. No one forces you to act one way or another. Blaming other people for the choice you make is lame. [/quote]

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