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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks for the advice.  All of it.  The good, the bad, and the stuff that I didn't want to hear but needed to.  I'm so confused because he is being sooo nice to me.  Helping with things around the house. Being supportive.  Not gonna lie it feels pretty good...I still love him and I'm still attracted to him.  I don't want to dismiss his good behavior by being cold.  I don't want him to think I've changed my mind about still wanting this to work.  But I'm also cautious that he could be behaving out of guilt...

I am also doing this: subtle but uplifting changes to make ME feel better about ME.  I made an appointment to get side bangs...I'm going to boost my eyelashes (very subtle, not slutty)...I'm going to whiten my teeth again...I pulled out my favorite bottle of perfume...and I am going to work on my inner self by running again which always helped clear my mind.  I'm going to reach out to my girlfriends to meet up for lunch. I'm going to keep being silly, I'm going to continue to be outgoing, and most importantly I'm going to stop feeling sorry for myself. I'm going to be what I want my daughters to be:  strong.  positive.  fearless. My heart is hurting and it's not going to be easy, but I am going to make that happen. For ME.

We have that counseling appointment coming up. I still have hope that it might work out.  I'm still going to try.  If he falls in love with me again, that would be amazing and I would receive it as a gift.  But if not, and he decides to blow this up, I'm going to be OK...and hopefully there's some wonderful man out there who would think I'm pretty great. [/quote]

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