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[quote=Anonymous]I posted earlier that he is having an affair.

If he weren't, then YES, he can fall in love with you again. My own DH and I went through a rough patch while one of our kids was having health issues. We weren't fighting or anything - it was just blah. I didn't feel love or hate - just indifference.

So I started doing little things for my DH to make me affection again. Stupid things, like notes or making his favorite cookies - things like that. He started to reciprocate with things he knew I valued - like scraping the ice off my car. We engaged in loving actions, and that led back to loving feelings. Remember that love isn't a feeling; it's a verb.

But that doesn't help OP. Her DH is having an affair, and this advice really won't work for her. You cannot do this once the person is in love with someone else, and it is probably counterproductive. My sister thought she could just be the best wife ever, and her DH would stop having his affair. That was wrong, and she made herself a doormat for a man who left her. Don't make that mistake.[/quote]

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