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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this happening pretty much every Saturday? Are you sitting alone most weekends while he is at his ex’s? I wouldn’t be ok with that. [/quote]

It every weekend but I’d say maybe every other plus a few trips during the week. He’s over there a lot. He was there most of day today and is now “too tired” to make our dinner plans. Whoever said I am sad about him not choosing to spend time with me is right I guess- that’s my primary issue. I don’t think it’s bad for him to keep in touch with her. But secondarily, I do think it’s kind of weird that he spends so much time at his former home with his former wife.  Idk... like why? I feel sort of foolish, sitting here waiting for him. [/quote]

Sounds like you’ve figured out that this isn’t working for you. Break it off and move on. You don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you or can’t meet your needs. [/quote]

For sure move on. He's just not that into you. When we were dating my now DH drove and hour and a half to see me every weekend that I was on call just so we could hangout between work calls. He wouldn't leave until Monday AM so he could sleep next to me Sunday night. He is still crazy about me after 12 years of marriage (not sure why but I'm happy he is!)

Don't settle for being someone's second priority. [/quote]

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