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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex helps with house repairs. I was the first wife and we're still friends. Sorry you're insecure.[/quote]

I don’t think I’m insecure, actually, I just want to spend time with him. It seems like she should handle stuff at her house- hire contractors to get it done, and not pressure him. She is wealthy, cost is not an issue. He still seems very attached. As someone said “it’s what I signed up for”... but, really?[/quote]

Also he will try to cover it up- saying he has to go do “errands” when we are talking about the weekend. But then he seems to not want to lie and will tell me he was over there doing work, if I ask him how his day was. Since we didn’t spend the day together. [/quote]

You are with this guy...why?

No, you are not in the position of demanding that he stop going over to his ex wife's house but you can certainly choose to find a guy that wants to spend his free time with you.  Don't sell yourself short like that, Op.[/quote]

Maybe there is more to this than yours saying.  But I’d run. She’s an ex wife and seems to be his priority not you. Plus he is a liar 
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