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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think I'm selfish at all.   I've taken the high road this entire time.  DH's family is barely civil to me,  yet I grit my teeth and deal.  His parents barely acknowledge my children,  but lavish his kids with presents over the holidays.  I've not said a single word about this unfairness,  and have never said a negative word about their mother.

I have taken on board the suggestions about letting go of expecting his kids do too much with my younger ones.  I can see how that might not be appealing to them.  [/quote]

Why should they be more than barely civil? They are good to their grandkids because they know they had nothing to do with you and your husband’s horrible decisions. All they know is what you’ve shown of your character- you were the AP turned wife. You’re lucky that they even acknowledge you so soon after such selfish actions from the two of you. Good god woman - have you not done this enough in upending these kids lives? You got the man - now you want the kids and in-laws to fall in line? Wow. Really - take a good look at yourself. Do what you can to make things better...what you’re doing now is not it.[/quote]

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