Reply to Would you look the other way on cheating if everything else was perfect?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Would you look the other way on cheating if everything else was perfect?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]I couldn’t look the other way.  Not knowing if they are having unprotected sex (possible STDs),  even with protected sex knowing there is a chance the AP could get pregnant (only abstinence  is 100% effective), being lied to about where they are, having to potentially share resources with someone else (if it’s a full on affair and they are having date nights with the other person while I am home with the kids), realizing it’s not just us against the world but my spouse doing what’s in their own interest without looking out for me and me deciding if I need to do the same.

The only way I could see going along with this is if we agreed to have an open marriage and I felt like we could both be trusted to follow the ground rules around some of my concerns  - like always using protection with other person, that he had a vasectomy, having some sort of code word or phrase if they wouldn’t be home and it wasn’t actually work and me also being allowed the same time, and that we still made time for each other and were still the primary unit.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics