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[quote=Anonymous]Your husband sounds reasonable and you do not. You have a bio child, and he is honest about not wanting to adopt, nobody should feel forced to adopt, maybe he is honest with himself and knows that he couldn't provide all the emotional attachment to bio and adopted child equal. And he know that this would be unfair to adopted child. He also seems to realize that at his age it is difficult to parent even a bio child, so why spend money and time on infertility? He is getting old and older, I am same age as you DH and if I got pregnant today,(still have period and few scares) I would be positively depressed! Even if it could be a viable and healthy pregnancy at my age. There are pills that stimulate ovulation, don't know what they are called in English, they helped me within 2 months conceive my first child after a year of trying and being told I don't ovulate.
Your DH seems wiling to have another bio child because he can see that you want another child, but it is fine that he draws the line there. Plus, why are you miserable? Are you on some hormones already? Your poor son has a mom who is MISERABLE and wanted a girl? Just this part here makes your DH's reasons even more valid.[/quote]

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