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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s so incredibly weird to know that people discuss their children’s personal and academic lives with their friends. I’m a mother of two—never looked to friends for validationn, advice, etc. regarding my children. Those conversations should be reserved for your spouse, educators, doctors, coaches, and possibly close family members.[/quote]

You forgot to add "in my opinion."  Adults can decide independently what they should share and with whom.[/quote]
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It is unusual and generally considered inappropriate in US culture. [/b]
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So true. And even weirder still is that in the exact same US culture, it is not only acceptable, but expected for one to brag on a kid who makes the travel team of XYZ sport, is chosen as MVP of his Little League, or who hold's the fastest time on her swim team. Superior ATHLETIC ability and performance is to be revered and praised from the rooftops. It's just the ACADEMIC talent/ability that must be hidden and only spoken about among family in whispers as though we should all be ashamed of making another child feel inferior or "less than"... Strange cultural norm.[/quote]

Don't know who you hang out with, but the parents I know don't brag about these things. Talking about where kids are going after school and on the weekends is not the same as talking about children's grades and scores, which is an invasion of the child's privacy.

Being on a team is pretty public because games and practices take place in public places. Grades and scores, on the other hand, are considered private information. FCPS doesn't publicly release grades and test scores because they protect the privacy of the children whose scores they are. 
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Bear in mind that in athletic pursuits, losses are just as public as successes. Privacy in academics means that low scores and grades are protected from public view, unlike in sports where your win-loss record is available for all to see.  
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