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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP-you sound very rigid and resentful and your plan to smile while you accomodate her adds to the wall you’re already reinforcing between yourself and this woman who raised your DH and is grandmother to your DC. Why don’t you suggest that DH (or your FIL) videos your MIL cooking this with you? I realize you say its a long and involved process but if you record the highlights of the process-your MIL can feel that it’s being preserved and then your child at some point when your MIL is dead or unable can see beyond your filter and disengagement and perhaps find the depth of tradition and connection tgeir father’s mother was trying to gift them.[/quote] Mil pops up again. She's got a special bat-phone that lights whenever a woman complains about her mil.[/quote]
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