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Clearly some people don’t get it. This is the love of your life and you are partners. Maybe you don’t know if marriage is a deal breaker yet, maybe you’ve frozen your eggs but still aren’t sure about kids. Maybe you’re not even sure if you’re making compromises, but for the time being you’re happy. Marriage isn’t the be all end all. It doesn’t really matter why always, but as an outsider it’s sooooo easy to look in on another’s relationship and criticize why their timing is off or how she “didn’t take responsibility.” Have some creativity, geez.[/quote]

But you do need to take responsibility for your choices - I think that is a fair criticism.  If you stay with someone that doesn’t want what you want in life and they have some control over that decision, you are making a choice that you are willing to give that up for that person. You may regret in in hindsight but it is a choice that you made.  If you don’t know what you want and you are with someone that person doesn’t know either - you take the chance that when one of you has definite ideas if it doesn’t matches the other, you break up because of those changes.[/quote]

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