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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it seems like a lot of people here don’t understand the level of undermining that you’ve been dealing with and they’re getting hung up on the fact that this instance involved a snack, which doesn’t seem like that big of a deal by itself. Maybe you could give some more context as to what’s happened over the 20 years this has been going on and why you think she’s a narcissist. It sounds like it’s been really frustrating for you for a long time but the example you gave obviously has some underlying context otherwise you wouldn’t have gotten so angry.

What does your DW say about al of this?[/quote]

There’s no ‘level of undermining’ because it’s a short visit and then she’s gone. It’s not worth getting that upset about. 
It does sound like OP controls every step and thought that his kid has and that’s every day, so honestly he should get help for that as it will cause his son stress and possibly lead to lifelong mental disorders and we know that he doesn’t want that. [/quote]

PP here. It doesn’t sound like this is the only instance of something like this happening, though. And if anyone is trying to control the situation, sounds like the mother is by purposely going against what her son asked her to do. Again.

Anyone saying that this is totally normal is full of it. If their parent - or even better, an in law - repeatedly acted this way, they wouldn’t be so quick to brush it off. [/quote]

even if there are 1000 instances like this they are all minor instances. OP clearly has an anger problem and is overly controlling. he blows these things out of any proportion. i shudder to think how his wife and children live.[/quote]

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