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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you’re really worrying me. You post every day. Pour that time and energy into doing something healthy. This is not good for you or your kids. [/quote] Op has posted a few times over the past few days. His posts have been reasonable and the number of his posts has been reasonable. If he needs to continue posting a few times, or if he decided to increase his posts by a lot, why can’t you let him do that? [/quote] Maybe only four new threads in the past week, but that’s still a lot for a situation that he ultimately can’t control. [/quote] If my marriage were breaking up over Christmas because my spouse cheated, damn straight I’d be posting about it on here multiple times. You need to vent and get perspective, and sometimes when you’re just miserable and sad, posting about it can help you feel better. DCUM can be great for that. OP, my wish for you is that one year from today you’ll be looking forward to 2020 with optimism and happiness. The next year will be tough, but keep your eye on the long game. You are shedding a relationship that no longer works and a spouse who has demonstrated she’s not worthy of your trust and love. You can get through this.[/quote] Wasn’t OP already planning a split once there was an empty nest? [/quote]
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