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Reply to "God grant me patience and peace today -- we're separating in a week or so"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I got good leverage in my divorce by threatening to involve the other spouse. I threatened to call the AP as a witness. Suffice to say, my cheater was VERY inclined to be cooperative.[/quote] +1. Evidence about the affair is worthless in court, but often very useful in custody negotiations. I was able to force my DH to leave the house in a matter of days and give me full custody by confronting him with evidence of cheating. [/quote] Because your DH was an idiot. He would have gotten 50/50 even if you’d dragged the OW into court. More likely, he didn’t want custody, but will let the kids think you bullied him out of their lives.[/quote]
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