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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He didn’t by you full stop.
It’s bit because he turned 30 .

It’s bit because you leaving him  devastated him so much  he quickly married the next.

He didn’t want you.  Deal with it.  Learn to put less value in a man so when’s one rejects you it’s not so devastating you need to tell yourself lies to cope.

He didn’t want to marry you, Maybe the next guy will.[/quote]

I disagree, and I have been through this.  I broke up with him, because in my heart, I knew he would not make me happy, in the long run.  It devastated both of us, because we were so much in love.  We probably will always think of each other as the loves of our lives - but, it was not practical for us to be together.  He married the next one that came along for a few reasons:  He was almost 30, and she was older (by a couple years), so she wanted to be married yesterday.  She gave him some prerequisites that he had to accomplish before they married.  He did not want to go through another tremendous loss, so he satisfied the prerequisites. All (all) of his closest friends were married, he had been in several of their weddings, which had an impact. He thought we were going to settle down, he was already of the mindset to settle down.  When she came along, she and he were in position to get married - not necessarily to each other, but they both wanted to be married, to settle down - it was timing, along with not wanting to go through such a huge loss again.  [/quote]

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